I have never enjoyed being celebrated. My birthday has not been a spectacle to me since I was born. It has since become more irrelevant.

A friend was wishing me a Happy one thinking he had missed it and I explained…again…that even if he missed my birthday it’s alright. It’s not a big deal to me. His response “I told you this before, even if you don’t care you are not celebrating for you”. I initially dismissed it and one day later a thought came to me of what he was really saying which was: 

Celebrate not because you want to but because someone thinks you’re worth celebrating. 

So, Happy Bornday to Me!!